Thursday, April 9, 2026

Joy Dare::March

 13,155. Church
13,156. Nap
13,157. Hearing about everyone's evening
13,158. Anna's motivation
13,159. Isaiah proud that he finished a piano book
13,160. Long to-do list crossed off
13,161. Celebrating Aliza
13,162. A special family dinner
13,163. Our children being so grateful
13,164. Windows open
13,165. School on the porch
13,166. New family at church this morning
13,167. Friend time during PE
13,168. ESL class was better than I was expecting
13,169. Watching some really old family videos
13,170. Celebrating music accomplishments for Isaiah
13,171. Aliza making cookies for Grandpa
13,172. Supper conversations
13,173. Josiah and Isaiah were the best workers
13,174. So much yard cleanup progress
13,175. Aliza in the middle of a Mom and Dad hug
13,176. Baptisms, testimonies, and potluck
13,177. Jeremy able to be with his brothers
13,178. Calling my mom when I want to be distracted
13,179. Daffodil blooms

13,180. Supper on the porch
13,181. Celebrating Jeremy
13,182. The hope of seasons changing
13,183. Grace for myself
13,184. Taking my afternoon work outside
13,185. The feeling of "extra time"
13,186. Staying home with Isaiah
13,187. Happy that Aliza had an afternoon with friends
13,188. Weather aventure 70 degrees in the morning, snow on the ground by supper
13,189, Car talk with Anna
13,190. Sitting in the intermediate ESL class
13,191. Sending Josiah off on an adventure
13,192. Talking to Amanda
13,193. A hotel evening by myself
13,194. A few interesting conversations
13,195. Home for supper
13,196. Hearing about Josiah's day
13,197. Figuring out something new
13,198. Catching up with Mom
13,199. Isaiah growing up
13,200. Homemade pizza
13,201. Candle burning on a stormy day
13,202. Watching Pride and Prejudice with Aliza
13,203. When all I have to offer is prayer and it doesn't seem like enough
13,204. Making a supper everyone likes
13,205. Visiting Maria
13,206. Bright stars tonight
13,207. Having a conversation in English with Diego
13,208. Watching Josiah serve in a capacity I hadn't seen
13,209. Audrey and Henry day
13,210. ESL class went really well
13,211. Clean kitchen when I got home
13,212. Heart melted
 

13,213. Dance pictures
13,214. Isaiah reading out loud tonight since I have a cold
13,215. A beautiful Saturday to clean up flowerbeds
13,216, Finding all the sprouting plants
13,217. Everyone home for supper on a Saturday
13,218. So many children at church
13,219. Bible study on the porch
13,220. Outside evening
13,221. Trying to give myself grace on a day when I don't feel great
13,222. Jeremy home in time to eat with us
13,223. Being still and quiet
13,224. Power washed house
13,225. Aliza took Anna to dance
13,226. Grandma sent a big box of chips
13,227. Earl Gray tea
13,228. Visiting with Mom
13,229. Planning an Easter party
13,230. Anna looking out for me
13,231. Reading on the porch
13,232. Conversation night in our ESL class
13,233. Fun bowling outing

13,234. Listening to Aliza think
13,235. Everyone appreciated supper
13,236. Sabbathing
13,237. Our very random daffodils
13,238. Bonding Sunday School time
13,239. Isaiah really enjoying his part in the church service
13,240. Aliza graciously helping me
13,241. Nice walking mornings
13,242. Van and Karen feeling a little better
13,243. Josiah was able to take a nap
13,244. Aliza was feeling better when she got home
13,245. Elizabeth 


Sunday, March 15, 2026

Joy Dare::February

 13,069. Adult conversations with out children
13,070. Bible study
13,071. Talking to Christie
13,072. Isaiah had a really good piano lesson
13,073. Jeremy is feeling better
13,074. This season of family life
13,075. Temperatures above freezing...
13,076. ...which means Josiah played disc golf
13,077. Car time with Anna
13,078. Being very consistent with math
13,079. Nerf night fun
13,080. Prayer
13,081. Friend time during homeschool gym
13,082. Anna had a really good day
13,083. Unexpected confirmations
13,084. Having the teacher side of school caught up
13,085. A much better option offered
13,086. Winter Olympics Opening Ceremony with Aliza
13,087. Planning a party
13,088. Staying home on a cold and windy day
13,089. Picking up groceries
13,090. Anna excited about Olympics
13,091. Superbowl evening
13,092. My multi tasking plan worked
13,093. Coming to my own conclusions
13,094. Hearing Laura's voice
13,095. Blue sky
13,096. Meeting Baby Will 

13,097. Playing with Maggie
13,098. Plane tickets purchased!
13,099. Waffles
13,100. Lovely 
13,101. Good math days
13,102. Morning sun
13,103. Good ESL class
13,104. Staying up to connect with Aliza
13,105. Overheard Isaiah to Josiah and Anna: "I just love spending time with ya'll."
13,106. Jeremy and the boys spent the evening together
13,107. Aliza hosted the sweetest Galentines party
13,108. Some time with Janell and Mom
13,109. Valentine's = ramen and movie with the family
13,110. Finishing the puzzle with Aliza
13,111. Gramma's banana split dishes for ice cream
13,112. Hanging out with children during church
13,113. Sunday afternoon quiet
13,114. Leftover Valentine desserts
13,115. Got Isaiah through the morning
13,116. A favorite for supper
13,117. Aliza came home happy
13,118. Speed talking with Maria
13,119. Clean sheets
13,120. Lunch with a new friend
13,121. Poke bowls are yummy!
13,122. Allie with us for the day
13,123. Catch up conversation
13,124. Going out without a coat
13,125. A really small ESL class was fun
13,126. Talking to Laura
13,127. Just being there while Aliza studied
13,128. Olympics over lunch
13,129. Sun breaking through the clouds
13,130. Mom stopped by
13,131. A moment that the sun felt warm
13,132. One more quiet Saturday
13,133. Making Anna happy with some online shopping
13,134. Huge snowflakes
13,135. Josiah and Anna could go to youth group
13,136. Electric staying on until very early morning
13,137. Water pressure lasted longer than I expected
13,138. We have lots of blankets
13,139. A hot drink while the house warms up again
13,140. Aliza home for another day
13,141. More snow play
13,142. Hanging out with John, Laura and Sean
13,143. Friends that don't mind just living life with you
13,144. Will was able to rescue Aliza's car
13,145. Watching David movie with church family
13,146. Bluebird on the birdhouse when I opened the curtain
13,147. Eating Chick Fil A free on opening night
13,148. Anna hanging out with us a PE
13,149. An incredible gift of our yard being cleaned up
13,150. Going to a special little girl's dance show


 13,151. Staying up really late just talking
13,152. Pokemon playing on a beautiful day
13,153. Celebrating Josiah 
13,154. Listening to grown boys playing games

Saturday, March 14, 2026

Celebrating Aliza

 20?! Really??!   


To celebrate Aliza's birthday, we went to Tokyo Steakhouse for supper. Aliza has wanted to go to this hibachi restaurant where they cook in front of you for a long time. We are (finally) at the point where all six of us would enjoy the food. And so, for the first time, we went to a "fancy" restaurant as a family. 



It was so fun! Aliza LOVED the experience and the sushi and steak. 

Josiah and Isaiah rode home in the car with me. They went on and on about how the steak was THE BEST that they've ever had. All of the children are old enough to appreciate when we have an experience that is a splurge and they are quick to express their gratitude. 

Our friend from Hondorus brought a Latin American birthday cake for Aliza. It was so pretty and a little something extra special for Aliza. 

 

Friday, March 13, 2026

Celebrating Josiah

 

Josiah had a beautiful day for his birthday that allowed him to do all the things that he enjoys. In all those fun things, not a single picture was taken until 11pm when he opened his gifts. 

Anna did take this picture while we were playing Pokemon at SU. It was a global Pokemon event and it was so nice to be able to walk around SU for the morning. Lunch was at Cookout. 

Then Josiah, Jeremy and Josiah's friends (Siah, Austin, Ben and Ian) played disc golf. After that they came back to house to play games, eat supper and ice cream cake and more games. These grown up boys sat around the table for hours playing Saving Hitler, Camel Up and another one I that I can't remember! 

It was really fun to be in the background, listening and observing. Josiah did not want to open presents in front of anyone. He actually told his friends not to bring presents. And so, when everyone left at 11pm Josiah opened his presents. He kept us entertained while he opened a bunch of small computer components that most of us had no idea what it was. 

Just like that my second child is a legal adult.  

Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Little Bits of Fun

 We've been watching a Chick Fil A being built 10 minutes away from our house. When Aliza found out that the grand opening was on a day when we were all home and I found out that if you "dressed up" as a cow your entree was free, it was decided that we HAD to go! I've seen lines at Chick Fil A. I've waited in lines at Chick Fil A. I thought maybe it was the craziest thing we had ever decided to do--to try to eat at Chick Fil A on grand opening day. Then again, I know how much it costs for our family to eat a meal at Chick Fil A and decided any line was worth a free meal!

We put white cow spot stickers on black shirts and--just like that--we were dressed up as cows. The drive through line was long, but, inside, we only had 2 groups in front of us. All of the tables were full, but one opened up pretty quickly. And we paid $0.37...for extra sauce.  

 

Friday night, Aliza, Anna and I got to attend Maggie's first dance show. (This was the same day that Maggie's Dad had sent his crew to clean up our front yard. ) We had so much fun cheering her on! Aliza knew a few other girls in the show too. 

 

 The whole auditorium was decorated and pictures of my girls never get old. lol.


Of course, we had to have a picture with a--very tired--Maggie. 

By the time we got home that night, the festivities for Josiah's birthday were getting started!
 

Monday, March 9, 2026

More Snow

 Today I am sitting on the porch with daffodils blooming, but two weeks ago we had 6 or more inches of snow in what they called a blizzard. 

The snow started Sunday afternoon. The flakes were big and I was watching winter Olympics which just made for a cozy afternoon. 

While I was laying with Isaiah that night, we thought we heard thunder. When I came downstairs I checked outside and saw that a large limb had fallen on the electric line that runs from the road to our house. We still had power, but the line looked quite precarious.  

Jeremy and Josiah went out and cut the limb so that it could be lifted off the electric line. Jeremy could see that the line had been pulled from the bracket on the house so it was still hanging low. 
We lost power at 4:30am. When the sun rose we had a winter wonderland--that included LOTS of limbs on the ground. 
I did nothing to prepare for this storm. In January the talk was that we were going to have a huge snow accumulation and we got nothing. Being past those weeks of bitter cold, I really wasn't in the mood to prepare for snow again. When we lost power, I was certain that we were going to be without power for at least 24 hours. My first concern was drinking water. I was pleasantly surprised that I could fill 3 gallons and all of our water bottles before the kitchen faucet lost pressure. 
Can you imagine the Heslop household without internet? Jeremy's work server was down which is located off site in downtown Salisbury. He was pretty concerned about that. We were all under multiple blankets playing cards that morning. No internet is that one thing that will shut down school for us. For that reason the kids were hoping the power was not back on too soon! Power was restored at 1:45pm. I was pleasantly surprised!

On Wednesday the electric company came to the door and told me that our tree needed to be cut down. In the end their definition of "cut down" was different than my definition of "cut down." Of course I know this was going to be necessary. I do like my trees though and it made me a little sad. 


These are the official "before pictures. 


An hour later the bucket trucks came. There were 2 trees across the street from us that also had limbs on utility lines and needed to be cut. Isaiah and I sat on the porch to watch!

While this was happening, our friend, Kayla came over with Maggie and Baby Will. Isaiah held Baby Will this time and it may have been the most precious thing. Kayla became an even better friend that day because she just sat on the couch and relaxed in the middle of the complete chaos happening. 
Aliza came home from school during the cutting. Trucks were blocking access to our house and so she decided to park on the side of the road. That would have been fine except that the ground was very wet and her front tire SUNK in. 


And here is the "after picture." What you can't appreciate from the picture is the mess. Our entire front yard was covered with limbs and branches. 


Kayla's husband, Will, burns wood and was in the area. So he stopped by and Josiah helped him load his truck with the bigger logs. 
 
Will and Josiah also pulled Aliza's car out of the mud. Yup, Will and Kayla are *basically* family now.  

You can see just a little bit, in the above picture, how low the electric line is. 

And then on Friday, Jeremy was driving to a job in Virginia Beach when he received a phone call from Will. Will called to tell Jeremy that he was sending out a crew to clean up the front yard and they were arrive in the next hour. Jeremy texted me and I couldn't believe it. Will was happy for the wood. I could not have been more grateful for that gift! 

(Josiah was also grateful. His birthday was the next day and I may have threatened that the grown up boys coming over were going to clean up the yard instead of play games! I never would have followed through on that, but I was tempted!) 

Tuesday, March 3, 2026

 


 Happy 20th Birthday Aliza!

You are so very loved!