Joy Dare::March

6210. Isaiah's dancing
6211. Everything on the to do list crossed off
6212. Remembering how to write formally
6213. Grandma and Grandpa
6214. Disappointment and another idea
6215. Josiah so enjoyed his birthday party
6216. Dinner with Aliza, Grandma and Brandi
6217. "Thanks, Mom, for making all my birthday dreams come true." Aliza
6218. 13th birthday tea party
6219. Standing beside Leslie in her wedding
6220. Getting the house back in order
6221. Everyone slept in late
6222. Aliza's birthday supper
6223. My formal writing turned out pretty well
6224. Weekly 45 minutes with Janell
6225. Linda's sight restored! A huge praise!
6226. Totally unexpected hour with Jeremy
6227. Josh completely surprised Jeremy
6228. The children kept the secret
6229. Isaiah warmed up to Josh right away
6230. Faith building stories
6231. Buds on daffodils
6232. Great trip with the children
6233. Blueprints
6234. Visiting with Josh
6235. Celebrating Jeremy!
6236. Quiet day for me
6237. Letting everyone sleep in as late as they want to
6238. The ice cream cake made the trip well
6239. Planting some seeds
6240. Catch up Monday
6241. 3rd quarter of school finished
6242. ShopVac
6243. Ranunculas planted
6244. Anna likes her glasses

6245. Spring is in the air
6246. Walking through the zoo felt like reminiscing
6247. Josiah left without crying and had a fun evening
6248. A strong breeze to air out the house
6249. Relaxing
6250. Jeremy and Josiah had a great time
6251. Aliza says it smells like spring
6252. Wild daffodils blooming
6253. Busy bird feeders
6254. An amazing aunt to my girl

6255. Monday night art with Daddy
6256. The supper lady heated up rolls just for Isaiah
6257. Health
6258. Family night doing something new
6259. Introduction to orchestra music
6260. Christian music in CookOut
6261. First food pickup
6262. Aliza so invested in Share Food
6263. Brisk morning walk
6264. The sweetest text
6265. Aliza so happy on dance picture day
6266. Anna thrilled to have a reason to do hair and makeup
6267. Spring break for dance
6268. Isaiah still likes to be held
6269. Rightnow Media
6270. Laughter
6271. Fresh air
6272. Meeting our Share Food contact person
6273. Working lawnmower
6274. Playing at the park
6275. Family evening outside
6276. Great conference speakers
6277. (Some of) my tribe of girls

6278. Jeremy makes the best meals
6279. After dinner ice cream
6280. Birds singing in the morning
6281. Cleaned up pot
6282. These daffodils

The Story of the Burned Pot

While Jeremy and Josiah set off for a boys conference with the group that Josiah is a part of on Wednesday evenings....

...Aliza, Anna, Isaiah and I came home from choir. I put some water on the stove to boil for a gallon of tea. Apparently I thought I was on a retreat too because I completely forgot about the water and 2 hours later Aliza went to the kitchen because she smelled something funny. The pot was smoking and crackling. I carried it outside and hosed it down with water before I opened the lid to find this...

The house was filled with smoke. I still can't quite figure out how we went from a small smell to the downstairs filled with smoke. It smelled terrible. I had to call Jeremy and on speaker phone tell him and the guy he was driving with about the pot. I told Jeremy I was throwing the pot away. The man Jeremy was with was a missionary in Zimbabwe for 20 years and assured Jeremy that a little scrubbing and that pot would be back in use. Thankfully, there was a strong breeze that evening. I opened the doors and windows for several hours and a lot of the smell was taken care of.

When Jeremy got home and over the next 2 weeks, Jeremy worked on the pot. It always sat with water in it. One evening he experimented with boiling different things in it to see if anything would loosen the crud. Ultimately he scraped and scrubbed and finally declared it good as new.

And you know what? I smiled and thanked him for showing me Jesus. Because isn't that just like God? I was going to throw that pot away without a second thought except that it is my favorite pot. Jeremy saw potential though and he was willing to take the time, effort and extreme measures to save the pot despite how much crud was there and how hard it was sticking to the pot. God doesn't give up on us. He might try to boil and soak us, but when it comes down to it He is willing to scrape and scrub until I'm the woman He wants me to be. Now whenever I use that pot I'm reminded of my failure, but also of God's faithfulness.

Our First Food Box Pickup

Our little church decided it was time to get our name out in the community. Janell found a ministry based in Philadelphia called Share Food. It didn't take long for us to figure out that this program was a really great fit for our church and community. Once a month anyone can order a box of nutritious, fresh food for $20. The box is worth $35-$40. We made fliers and passed them out and in our first month we had 41 boxes of food ordered. So last Saturday, Janell, Grandad, Aliza, Renee and I drove to Cambridge to pick up our boxes.

We loaded those boxes into 2 minivans.

There was also a pallet of Kind granola bars that were free. Thankfully those boxes were small and we filled all the empty spaces with Kind boxes.

When we got back to the church others were there to help unload. The children added the lettuce to each box. The meat also had to be bagged separately.

Everything ready for pickup! We had quite a greeting crew and the men and children carried boxes to the cars for the people who ordered. It was fun to meet everyone and give our church building an additional use.

Homeworks Consultant Spotlight

(I wrote this article for Homeworks by Precept. It was originally published on their site and I decided that I wanted it here also. )

Carla Heslop lives on the Eastern Shore of Maryland, just south of Delaware. She graduated from Salisbury University with a bachelor’s degree in social work and worked in grant management for five years. Carla met her husband, Jeremy, during college and they have been married 18 years. They have been blessed with four children, ages 13, 11, 8 and 4. When schoolwork for the day is finished and the housework is reasonably completed, Carla enjoys documenting family life in the form of blogging and scrapbooking. She always has at least one book in progress and believes that an afternoon nap makes any day better.

While Carla was pursuing her master’s degree in social work and expecting their second child, her husband opened the discussion about homeschooling over supper one evening. Her daughter was 3 years old at the time, and Carla had never considered homeschooling as a possibility for educating her children. She just assumed her children would go to a private, Christian school. As the discussion continued that evening, it became clear that public school would not be an option and private school was going to be out of reach financially when tuition was multiplied by multiple children. Over the course of a few weeks, Carla grew into the idea of homeschooling if she could find a curriculum that she felt comfortable using without her having a background in education.

From the beginning, Carla knew that she did not want to piece together her own curriculum. She wanted lesson plans that she could follow and a scope and sequence that could be followed as long as her family thrived in homeschooling, whether that be that through 3rd grade or 12th grade. She also knew her personality was pretty traditional and structured. Additionally, she wanted a curriculum that closely mirrored private schools so that her children would be prepared to transfer into school if the need ever arose. On the other hand, if her children homeschooled through high school, she wanted a curriculum that would prepare them for higher education. Carla is known to say that she wants to give her children a private school education at home.

Carla’s curriculum research ultimately led her to talk to a HomeWorks by Precept consultant. That consultant was one of the first people that Carla talked to who homeschooled. At that time, homeschooling was not nearly as popular as it is on the Eastern Shore of Maryland now. The consultant talked Carla through the curriculum, how BJU Press Homeschool builds a biblical worldview into every subject, how the Distance Learning teachers teach directly to your child and are highly qualified educators, how Distance Learning teachers are there as a support for the parent not a replacement of the parent, and how there are many options built into the curriculum to adapt for different learning types. The two of them had a few more conversations over the next year and a half; and ultimately, Carla bought the entire kindergarten Distance Learning curriculum without seeing it in person. For the next seven years and counting, Carla continues to use the BJU Press Homeschool Distance Learning program exclusively.

It is not just because Carla loves the structure and ease of use of BJU Distance Learning; her children are thriving in their education. When her daughter was in 6th grade, she defended creation based on what she had learned in science during a discussion with a peer who had questions about evolution. Her 5th-grade son reads ahead in his reading book because he enjoys the stories and doesn’t want to stop at the chapter break. All three of Carla’s children who have completed kindergarten have cried during the last lesson because they will miss their teachers and the class mascot, Hopscotch.

Three years ago, Carla became a consultant with HomeWorks by Precept primarily because of her and her family’s enthusiasm and belief in the BJU Press Homeschool curriculum. It was a HomeWorks by Precept consultant that gave her the confidence to enter the homeschooling lifestyle, and she is so happy that she has the opportunity to reach out to other moms. As a HomeWorks consultant, Carla loves being able to share BJU Press Homeschool materials with others, build a relationship with them, and then stay connected and encourage them throughout their journey.

Meet the Author
Carla Heslop - HomeWorks by Precept Consultant
www.homeworksbyprecept.com/Carla-Heslop

Celebrating Jeremy x 40

Given that 40 is a pretty special birthday, I decided that Jeremy should see his Mom on his birthday so we planned to go to WV for the weekend.

Jeremy's parents agreed that 40 was a pretty special birthday and decided that Jeremy should see his Texas brother on his birthday.

The Texas brother couldn't get off work so the weekend so he decided to come to our house during the week. And that is how Josh showed up on our doorstep at 8pm on March 6, three days before Jeremy's birthday. 

I knew Josh was coming, but Jeremy had no idea. We went to church as usual on Wednesday evening and came home. I was getting school ready for the next day and Jeremy had started getting the children ready for bed. When the car pulled in the driveway I told Jeremy he had to answer the door because I wasn't going to! Jeremy was completely surprised! 

Thursday evening Jeremy and Josh went to their parents house and the children and I went on Friday.

On Saturday, Matt met Jeremy, Joel and Van to watch a movie and Matt got to spend the evening hanging out with Jeremy and Josiah playing games at Joel's house.

Jeremy loves ice cream cake with the chocolate crunchies! His Mama did not disappoint!

This pretty great guy had a pretty great birthday! I'm so glad we grew up together and now we will grow old together!

Celebrating Aliza

This pretty girl is 13 and we celebrated her! The festivities started before her birthday with a shopping trip to pick out a dress for her birthday tea party.

For almost the past year, Aliza has been dreaming up her perfect birthday tea with me, Anna, her Grandmas and Aunts. The weekend finally arrived and a whole bunch of snow was predicted for West Virginia and Brandi and Karen had to make the decision that they would have to leave before Aliza's party. After the worst of the tears had passed, I had the idea of me, Aliza, Brandi and Karen going to Olive Garden Saturday evening before they left. That turned out to be a wonderful alternative plan.

Aunt Brandi and Aliza

Grandma Karen and Aliza

Olive Garden was one of the restaurants that Aliza has been wanting to try. Thankfully her dining experience was worth our 70 minute wait to be seated! She had a really fun evening topped off with walking the mall.

And then the tea party!

Janell decorated the table. Mom and I worked together to make the food.

Raspberry cordial was our nod to Anne of Green Gables. I made the raspberry concentrate and the house smelled SO good while it was cooking.

Potato soup, of course. Aliza loved the garnishes on top.

Sandwiches included these dill pickle bites. Aliza loves, loves, loves pickles.
These are the best scones that I've made to date. They are even dairy free so that Brandi could eat them.

Fruit tarts that Mom made. There were also cupcakes and ice cream that I didn't take a picture of. (oops.)

And chocolate covered strawberries.

Anna got to be one of the ladies. She used all of her energy to be proper and grown up.

Meghan, Aliza, Anna, Laura, Janell

Grandma and Aliza

Mom and Daughters

It is so fun to celebrate Aliza. I'm so proud of her. This season of teenager years are going to be fun!

Celebrating Josiah

Josiah had a pretty great birthday. Earlier in the week he had a couple friends over to play Fortnite. The 3 boys and Jeremy played together. At the end of the evening Josiah said that he could not have had more fun.

We gave him headphones and a desk chair. He's pretty sure he is grown up now!

Chocolate covered strawberries--his signature birthday dessert.

At Josiah's birthday party with grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins, He wanted me to sit right beside him.

I can't wait until it's warm enough for Josiah to be digging outside!

If you have an 8-12 year old boy, he NEEDS this Bible! Josiah heard Meghan talking about how much Gideon loves his and Josiah thought it sounded awesome. So Meghan got him one for his birthday.

Josiah is reading it cover to cover. I find him reading multiple times a day and after he's tucked in at night. He's 300 pages into it now. And he KNOWS what he is reading! It's SO neat!

It was very cold, but these 3 still got in a few minutes of soccer since Josiah got a goal.